How do you feel about dating a WW/BM who hangs around nothing but people your skin complexion?

Discussion in 'The Attraction Between White Women and Black Men' started by 4north1side2, Oct 2, 2017.

  1. Since1980

    Since1980 Well-Known Member

    Lol I guess because I want to believe that I'm better than people with a list of qualifications like that. I mean, I have things I look for in a woman but when I was on dating sites I tried to phrase it in a way that included people instead of excluding them.
     
  2. meowkittenmeow

    meowkittenmeow Well-Known Member

    Lol, most of my best relationships were with korean and japanese women. I think there is some mild validity to their argument.

    I have seen maybe 2 or 3 cases of black men who hang out with only white me that act like stereotypical white men. But, in my experience, black men who don't hang out with many black people tend to hang out with asians, latinos, whites, etc. Like Gorath mentioned. I rarely see those black men take on anything more than positive characteristics.

    In regards to white women who have mostly black friends (especially black female friends), I'd say 7 out of 10 times the white women adopted every single negative attribute that is stereotypically associated with black women (even if her friends don't exhibit the same negative attributes).
    I have met a few that weren't like that, but not many.
     
  3. meowkittenmeow

    meowkittenmeow Well-Known Member

    If you are attractive, (and make decent money) you can get away with a laundry list of likes and dislikes. That was my experience when trying online dating.

    Oddly enough I found that the women who didn't meet the standards of my laundry list would message me to either argue with me, or to send a weird message like,"You're cute... too bad you only date women who workout", or some other passive agressive reverse psychology attempt.

    You are an attractive man, bro, type that laundry list and watch them flock to you.
     
  4. RicardoCooper

    RicardoCooper Well-Known Member

    A lot of WW admire all that sassy, neckrolling bullshit. Many times the white girl is even more ratchet than the hoes she emulates, to get their respect. Shameful all around. Thinking black men need to avoid the drama
     
  5. DudeNY12

    DudeNY12 Well-Known Member

    I'd definitely avoid such a woman, but if she's looking to get with a BM who fits the ghetto, street image... She'd probably pass on me anyways.
     
  6. meowkittenmeow

    meowkittenmeow Well-Known Member

    I have witnessed this happen.
     
  7. Reverie

    Reverie Well-Known Member

    Are you on a macbook? Try downloading flowstate (the link explain what app it is), I once drunk an entire bottle of wine and just started hammering in flowstate, it was fucking marvellous. 2000 words in five minutes.
     
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  8. Gorath

    Gorath Well-Known Member

    I remember riding on the bus to get to work. An older white man and a young white girl got on and sat together. I assumed that they were family. The older man was trying to talk to the young girl and she said tried to shrug him off. He tried again and the girl yelled out,"LEAVE ME ALONE,YO!"
    I didn't know what to make of that scene. It was evident that the girl was either into hip-hop and speaking in Ebonics or she just said it that way to embarrass the older man because the majority of the passengers on the bus was black.

    Back in the late 90''s, I remember hanging out at a video store. An interracial couple walked in. The guy was acting like a total jerk, yelling for service and his girlfriend hung on his every word. She never left his side for a moment and kept calling him baby. The store didn't have what he was looking for and he stormed out.

    Emulation is flattering. When I was a little boy, I wanted to emulate adults in their conversations with others. I listened as much as I could. It was part of my informal social development.

    I don't know too many white girl's who have mostly black friends. I remember a girl on campus who wore an X on her shirt and baseball cap. The film Malcolm X came out and the X became an urban design fashion statement. It was obvious that she had no idea who Malcolm X was or even his story. In fact, a lot of young people had no idea. Racist whites had a t-shirt that had the statement,"You have your X, I have mine."
    The X was the Confederate stars and bars.
     
  9. Gorath

    Gorath Well-Known Member

    Thanks, I'll look into it.
     
  10. Reverie

    Reverie Well-Known Member

    If you tries my method, I hope you tell how it goes. <3
     
  11. Gorath

    Gorath Well-Known Member

     
  12. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    They already trying to argue?......lol

    Needs a block feature if it doesn't already.
     
  13. Since1980

    Since1980 Well-Known Member

    Hmm...maybe the next time I get back onto one I'll have two profiles. Or just have different types of profiles on more than one site. One can be nice and funny, and the other can be an asshole with a laundry list lol.
     
  14. Gorath

    Gorath Well-Known Member

    Or go onto a site and state that you are a multimillionaire. Watch how many model type females respond to your profile.
     
  15. meowkittenmeow

    meowkittenmeow Well-Known Member

    Lol. But in all seriousness, there is nothing asshole-ish about a laundry list. It's blunt but not necessarily mean. I have no idea why, but the laundry list works.
     
  16. meowkittenmeow

    meowkittenmeow Well-Known Member

    Yep, you run into a few who want to argue you out of your preferences. Lol
     
  17. Reverie

    Reverie Well-Known Member

    I don't have a laundry list.
     
  18. RicardoCooper

    RicardoCooper Well-Known Member

    That's what makes you desirable
     
  19. Reverie

    Reverie Well-Known Member

    Ok. ;)
     

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