first date a total disaster

I am a 27 year old black male whose has been seeing a 21 year women from denmark. Met her at a gym. She came to me first and we started talking. First went out to a movie and was all good. As we started talking she brought up how she banged her old boyfriend in the backseat of a car and I was pissed. Cut the convo short and left. After about two weeks we talked outside the gym. We talked about some of sillyest things we did in life. She again brought up sex. She said she had sex with her old boyfriend at a train station and then banged two cousins at the same time. I was so mad.... i told her she got around and then I saw a friend come to the parking lot and told him what she told me in front of him. Then I asked her how much for one night. Then I threw a dollar bill at her and said you probably will do the whole city by the time you go back to denmark. She was so hurt it looked like. I regret what I did and said. I apologised to her and hope she forgives me. She texted me every damn day and it was the sex tales she told me that made me think she was a slut.

 

don't know if i missed something, but it doesn't sound like to me that you even went out on a date with her...just chatted inside and outside of the gym

 

He said they went to a movie.

 

see i didn't see that...maybe it was added just after i read it...???

 

No you're just reading too fast. Go ahead. Let this man know what's up with you non-American women and how ya'll roll.

 

Lovely. Thanks for sharing. :roll:

 

enlighten me...just what is up with us non-american women, and how do we roll...???

lol

 

Just speaking from personal experience, but most of y'all are not prudish when it comes to the topic of sex unlike most of us here in the good ol' U.S. are. That's all.

 

Couple of things.... Northern Europe is much more open about sex and talk more open about it - in general. Its simply the culture.. dont mean we are kinkier..just more open about it. Just talking about it dont make her a slut and the dollar bill story was mean. Apart from the cousin story I bet she is not much different than any other girl from the states. Most people have stories about sex in such places.

If she is new to this country, she might actually dont know that its not something we talk about that openly here, especially w people you dont really know...

Having that said... doing cousins is just simply weird. Just talking about it, whether she actually did or not... just weird.

 

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I don't think there's any coming back from that. She'll just move onto a guy who has the guts to tell her 'Look, I really don't feel comfortable with you discussing your past sex life'.
Seriously, if you'd said that the first time you probably wouldn't be having a problem and wouldn't have insulted her. But if I were her, I'd count this as experience and move on.

You should too.

 

Is this all you came here to tell us? :-?

 

Apparently so, but I'm sure he'll be back to dazzle us with more unbelievable fiction Mama. :roll:

Was there a news story recently about WW gettin' too big for their britches? I only ask cause I must have missed it, and it seems we've had several new people showing up to 'put us in our place' by sharing their personal, non-factually based, negative opinions. The old WW are skanky, smelly, aggressive, unattractive sluts bit.

I always wonder why people like that bother? It's not like anyone is going to take anything seriously that comes from such depressingly ignorant sources anyway. Not to mention, you must have one hell of an ego to think you have enough pull to influence an entire forum full of adults, who unlike you, happen to be intelligent and able to think for themselves.

Since they are apparently so poorly informed, let me give a couple tips to the folks with negative agendas:

1. There's no point in trying to deliver your BS under the guise of general conversation, it's obvious that you have an agenda, and what it is. Stop trying to strategically beat around the bush, you're not that good, just get to it. And yes, that also applies to some people who have been here a while, you may be slightly more skilled at avoiding detection, but some of us see you quite clearly... you aren't as stealthy as you like to think.

2. You're wasting your time. Nothing you say will make a difference. There are plenty of sites who welcome hatred, racism, and general all around stupidity... this isn't one of them, but please do feel free to go find one of those and fellowship with pathetically like-minded idiots.

3. Realize that regardless of how 'enlightened' & intelligent you think you are, other people see you as the poorly informed, ignorant, pathetically sad people you are... and who is going to pay any mind to someone like that... let me help you out, I don't want you to strain yourself pondering that, the answer is no one.


Note: If you're reading this and thinking 'I wonder if she's talking about me', there's a 99% probability that I am.


Oh and to the OP, I'm going to go ahead and assume that your choice of 'smoothman' was an attempt at sarcasm, as it's rather apparent you just really aren't.

 

Cousins are part of the repertoire in Northern Europe too huh? :wink:

 

uh?????
Are you drunk???


LOL

 

Somebody had to ask. :smt080

 

When did this become Penthouse Forum? I have been away for awhile.

 

Shit, these fools couldn't get published in Penthouse, they don't write nearly well enough or have sufficient imagination. This is straight up 4th grade level creative writing, and we all know it. You could print it out, correct all the mistakes in red pen and give it back to them and they'd feel right at home.

 

more akin to a ransom note with newspaper clippings :lol:

 

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