the beauty of dating outside your race

I worship the ground WW float over. They say one lick of a WW's pussy can give a man super-powers. Her beautiful eyes wield a hypnotic power that no woman can match. She can make you walk off a cliff if you're not careful. One flash of her white thighs can make a 747 go off course. Sex with a white woman de-ages you 5 years each time you fuck her. Fuck her long enough and you'll be 12 years old again like Benjamin Button. A white woman's wide ass was once used to keep ships from running up on the rocks when the lighthouse broke. A hundred lives were saved that stormy night. All these reasons and more are why I worship my White Goddesses.

 

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wow factor

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Hello all... here's my point of view on preference. The way I see it, women really have a strong desire to be desired and wanted. Maybe not worshipped in a creepy way...(and what's creepy depends on the girl, much of the time) but wanted nonetheless. So, if I've got this particular thing for really pale skin, and it makes something inside of me go 'woooow', unlike any other skin complexion, well then the way that I see it, it would actually be unfair to date a woman who didn't provoke that reaction. Because at the end of the day, I may respect her and like her and even have a great deal of affection for her, but I can't really give her what she wants-- a man who is immediately WOWed by what he sees when he looks at her. So my going after my physical preference is not just for my own self-centered wanting to be 'wowed', but also the awareness that girls want the 'wow' from me.

 

OK, OK, you can come over...SHEESH...

 

Did you know if you're a black man getting white pussy that you can completely soak yourself in gasoline and then run through the fires of hell afterwards and not get burned?

 

Hey goddamnit!! You know that shit's true!! :|

 

LOL, testify my brotha.

 

For me the whole pale skin thing is part of the contrast of our bodies together. Its much more intense and passionate when it comes to my interaction and desires. I just find a sex appeal in it that peaks my interest.

You always have to walk that fine line of fetishism and your desires. For me its pretty straight up, her personality has to be one I am attracted to as well.

So even if I'm physically attracted to a pale skinned woman and she is not of the right mindset that would turn me off from her.

Its a combination of things that have to come together, attraction, personality, intelligence, interests all part of the equation.

This is why I often say we have to do what makes us feel happy, I can't go to sleep at night next to someone I'm not turned on by or feel a strong connection to when it comes to a relationship and I would hope its the same for her as well.

 

You're making me jealous DB

There goes your chance to go to Paris with me. :smt058

 

For me, as a European, dating Americans, I see little difference in terms of culture that matters (black vs white). Its all difference of culture any way you cut it, even being here this long.
Sure, there are things that differs.. I think bm, in general are more confident in themselves and are more prone to show their appreciation..

Granted, I think this is a matter of where in the US. I dated most of my time in Texas.... wm there certainly did not fit my European style I dont do velcro, standing by the sideline, clapping my hands.. which most of my Tx wm bf seem to appreciate. fuk that.
That for sure was a culture difference I dont jive with. So for me, any American gave me something new culture-wise to learn for a very long time. Black or white.

I might have said in the past that Im an equal opportunity dater, but bm seem to come first... why???
One - they just seem more confident in themselves. wm seem to have more hang ups, it might just be my experience.

Apparently I am becoming more and more exclusive to bm.... I like the contrast.. Im not even gonna front, its erotic. Granted, when you dated someone for some time, that is not something you really "see", but its still there.... and its sexy.... but apart from that.... Somehow, mentally, I connect easier w black men than white men... I dont know why, just seem to mesh better w me mentally.

 

It's not even so much so the raw contrast FG, but what goes behind that, the passion, the intensity, the desire of wanting one another.

When you throw that into the equation that attraction just kind of heightens things as well from my personal experience.

You raise the point I mentioned earlier when you spoke of the mentality meshing, which is in essence the personality, that as well as other factors fuel the attraction to the person.

I grew up around Black and Indian women before coming to America at the age of 12.

It wasn't until in college I really became attracted to white women, by seeing that my personality, interests, style was similar. It was just a symmetry that I had with them. I was getting to know women of an entirely different cultural background to their lives, that I didn't grow up around.

When I speak to white women I feel very comfortable, I don't feel out of place or lacking confidence to broach a subject and get to know them. Its like I can just open up and speak and get into a deep conversation even initially meeting. That's just the way it has been for me.

I've always been attracted to women with intelligence so that may play a part in why I can speak with them and have in-depth, informative discussions.

A woman who cannot talk about world issues or different cultures will lose my attention, because I want to be able to learn from her and we can feed off of each other in a relationship.

 

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I dont know shit, but maybe, if you up-front are dating "IR" you drop certain walls because you realize there m i g h t me some cultural difference, and thus, keep yourself more open and more receiving... and therefor maybe you bypass the initial hurdles because of it???

Granted, like it has been said so many times, after that, you have to be strong to deal w stuff that comes with "IR" dating..... However, because of our awareness of perceived differences, (whether real or not), we might be more open and bond faster???????

 

this is exactly how i have felt for years now, black men appeal to me much much more, not to mention the fact that the majority of men who have came up to me over the years have been black, i do love the confidence alot of black guys have plus the black guys i know dont take no shit off of no one, plus i def feel more secure and comfterble with my current man

 

LOL, yes. That is how it works for me.

The way I see it wm can take some cues from bm when it comes to that. If they dont watch, most ww will be with bm eventually, and they will go "huh, what happened" LOL.

 

Yeah, certainly, ditto for me, I'm not sure if I spoke too strongly... I feel kinda weird talking about this stuff cause I'm sure it would come off as fetishism since I'm new here and no one would know how much I do value an authentic personal connection with an individual. I'm just kind of buzzed cause I don't really know anybody who talks like this and this site is COOL AS *&@!^%*!!!!! :smt023