donjm,
imo, it depends upon how you are raised. my father wasn't a "physical" or violent man, so "roughness" is not something i expect. there are lots of women who can love and appreciate a gentle man, especially a big, gentle man. i do *smile*

in this racist country, i'm sure there are ww who where told by the male members of their family that black men were animalistic or sex fiends in order to keep them apart. prejudice and racism stem from fear, which leads to stereotyping.

not to worry, there are still many women who want a man who treats them GOOD!

By Donjm (64.12.105.162) on Friday, July 20, 2001 - 10:14 pm:

Seems tha you hear a lot of people in the white community expect black men to be "rough " with white women. I, a black man, was never raised to treat any woman roughly. I try to treat any and every woman with the upmost respect. I love and appreciate a woman who can appreciate that and respond in kind in a sexual situation as well as at all other times