Once a black man I loved dearly asked me to be his mistress. I was heartbroken. I wanted to be his wife. There were extenuating circumstances. We both had chidren from previous marriages, and he did not think it would work to combine them. Also, he was on the verge of getting remarried. Yet, he still wanted something on the side. Although he is a qualtiy person in many, many ways...adultery is still a sin...the wages of sin is death just like the Bible says. It was the death of our friendship. Alas!!!!!:-(

By Kansascity (209.242.125.134) on Tuesday, March 20, 2001 - 01:05 am:

Women of any race MUST BE LADIES and HAVE MORALS...otherwise all this other stuff you are all talking about doesn't mean a thing. IT CAN't be REAL. NEVER WAS & NEVER WILL BE. Do not treat each other like toys. :-)