Gosh, thanks everyone!!! I feel so welcome you all have me blushing now!!! I think I just may stay here for a while to try and represent the black women out there who do think like I do. Because after reading some of the posts from other black women on here (you know who you are, those that aren't involved won't get offended) you need to wake up, get off your pedestal, & mind your business. Anyone has a right to date whomever they want to, purple, green, or blue, (that would be a sight to see, but hey who am I to judge?). If you & that person care about one another than it's all good, right?

*C-No-Color*

By Anon2000 (207.218.73.27) on Friday, February 9, 2001 - 02:19 am:

cnocolor,
i like your style!

By Frangiapani (203.54.154.242) on Thursday, February 8, 2001 - 09:41 pm:

Cnocolor, You sound like a lovely lady. I agree with your views and it would be nice if all people could think the way you do.

By Roberto (205.188.197.153) on Thursday, February 8, 2001 - 08:35 pm:

Cnocolor:

In some ways you remind me of my baby sister. Its refreshing to see a positive black woman. I thank you for your response to my post. I welcome you here for your continued insights. ~ Roberto

By Cnocolor (4.17.99.12) on Thursday, February 8, 2001 - 02:54 pm:

Melirosa,

Thanks a bunch. & just trust me on this, as a black woman, I catch a whole lot of "flack" for my open-minded views, I just wish I could convince more people to think this way. oh well *sigh*

*C-No-Color*

By Melirosa (208.166.11.98) on Thursday, February 8, 2001 - 02:04 pm:

cnocolor-
i couldn't have said it better myself. so true.

By Cnocolor (4.17.99.12) on Thursday, February 8, 2001 - 01:02 pm:

Roberto,
Maybe these will help answer your questions:

1.Personally, I don't see a problem with people having a preference of a specific race of women or men, we're all of the human race right?
2. Certain physical attributes of one race may be appealing to the opposite race, it depends upon what that particular individual person is looking for.
3. In some ways this society is becoming marketed on certain racial attibutes, but that may not be a good thing, because it will probably divide us as a nation.
4. Variety is the spice of life........but hopefully we're all choosing who we want to be with for content of their character not the color of their skin. You can be the "finest" looking person in the world, but if your personality sucks you can be a very ugly person.

*C-No-Color*